Showing posts with label Happy List. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Happy List. Show all posts

Monday, April 4, 2011

And then I don't feel so bad

- Time with a good book
- Friendly parents of toddlers
- The claim that "April showers (will) make May flowers" (Does snow count?)
- Vitamins
- Long walks with a friend
- Red potatoes
- Pilates
- Ponytails
- Chocolate Chip Cookies
- Paper Towels
- Lemon Scented "Plinks"
- White Christmas Lights
- Our Brita Filter
- Access to a Bod Pod
- Irons
- Feather Pillows
- Fresh Air
- Crockpot Suppers
- Auto-Save
- New Printer Cartridges
- The "like" button on Facebook

Monday, February 28, 2011

In The Bleak Midwinter

I'm super-cheered-up by:

- Needle and thread
- Two weeks of having two vehicles
- Gmail
- Visits from a dear friends
- Awesome ski trip
- Ibuprofen
- Cameras
- Snow
- Happy yellow flowers
- Tall lovely roses
- Laughter
- A new shelf
- Peanut butter and apples
- Dishsoap
- My curling iron
- Turbo kick boxing
- Online workout videos
- Fresh towels and clean bedding
- Creme Brulee scented candles
- Creme Brulee

Monday, February 14, 2011

Oh Happy Day

Today is grey and windy, bleak and demoralizing.  It's 55 degrees currently, which, bizarrely enough, feels much colder than the pleasant 30-degree days we had last week.  Go figure.  People are huddled in their homes, loitering in the common buildings, irritably purchasing last-minute Valentines' flowers, and fervently wishing this week were over.

I feel it, too.  Husband is working another 15 hour day today, and (come to think of it) every day this week. Sinking is instinctive, amidst the lonely dimness here.  To dwell on what I don't have - to mope rather than improve.  To waste time instead of be proactive and productive.  But, I'm a rebel.  So here's my happy list.  And then, I'm going to go clean house, darnit.  And listen to Adventures in Odyssey.  And make dinner, for when he eventually comes home.

- A fresh, new haircut
- Sweet notes from my husband
- Affordable curtains
- Fun, chunky jewelry
- Decor possibilities
- Hairspray
- Bean and Cheese Burritos
- Concealer
- Borrowed cars
- Hand-me-downs from PCSing families
- Completed laundry
- Socks
- Cheerful blogs
- Hot Soup
- Google
- Our freezer
- My singing chipmunk, who makes me grin, no matter what

Monday, February 7, 2011

Bright copper kettles, and warm woolen mittens

- Patriotic music
- Indoor heating
- $6.34 refunds
- The miracle of salvation
- Realized/corrected budget errors
- Sunny/Rainy/Windy/Snowy/Sunny-Again Days
- Hair ties
- New words
- Plans to dream over
- Fingernail files!
- Hungarian Mushroom Soup
- Shampoo
- Dry cleaners
- Receipts
- Online banking
- Candles

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

3 Perks to Small Towns

The grey, baby mouse was curled into a tight fetal position, and looked so cold/scared that I (in spite of my gender) instinctively pitied it. 

But then, I flinched.  The tiny creature was perfectly flattened against the pavement, the obvious victim of a heavy, rural truck tire.

This all happened at the edge of the shadow cast by Paul's Grocery, the town's family-run market.  I was picking my way across the icy, cracked asphalt in an effort to obtain my "10% off" military discount, offered on the one day when our commissary is closed (clever businessmen, these smalltown folks). 

I shuddered, veered around the mouse, and darted through the automatic door - which has a tendency to close randomly, so you better be quick.

Inside, I found a tub of raw, wild, local honey for a fraction of what the neatly labeled, machine-manufactured, bear-shaped options cost.  And lamb (which isn't sold in the Commissary).  On clearance!  And people waved at me as if I was an old friend.  No one assessed my clothes, or my hair, or seemed to judge me at all.

Thus, I gradually recovered from my trauma with the mouse and began realizing that, as much as military spouses complain about living "in the middle of nowhere!" (which is true) and wishing for "civiliation" so on... there are a ton of (easily-overlooked) perks to living here.

I'll list only three today, because, well, it's the daily number... but, you can add your own.  Or I may add more, next Wednesday.  ;-)

(1)  I can do several consecutive hours of grocery bargain hunting/couponing, and my frozen groceries stay conveniently rock solid, even in our car.  Score!

(2)  Old folks are extra-well-preserved here, because it appears they simply have to keep living (and living) at the normal pace.  92 year old men are trim, and still fit into their 3-decade old Wranglers.  Possibly because they don't so much as have benches here.  Not even at the pharmacy.  Moreover, there's no mall where they can nap.  Only thing close to a mall here is the hardware store, where loiterers congregate as if it's the Mayberry Barbershop.  And there are no benches there, either.

(3)  We never wash our car anymore.  Ever.  (We don't even own a sponge.)  We'd just be considered snobs.  After all, who's gonna judge you for being a little muddy/dusty? 

Oh wait - only city people would.

Monday, January 24, 2011

New Mercies I See

Today, I'm thankful for:

- Hymn lyrics that God brings to my mind, when I most need encouragement
- Startlingly-Delicious Lentil Soup (Compliments of Progresso, and a coupon)
- That our thermostat (clock) is directly across the hall from my bathroom
- That most of our shelves are not wire, because wire shelves thwart all balancing
- Kind neighbors who give me rides, and enable Husband and I to share one vehicle
- Having a piano
- Rain pants, and rain coats, and umbrellas
- Solid theology
- Fun, new vocabulary words
- My mom, and her wisdom
- Tentative travel plans
- Our Christmas tree (yes, it's still up - it improves our living room lighting immensely)
- That moment when the sun presses thru the dark clouds, and lifts the moody fog away

Monday, January 17, 2011

Name them, one by one

Today, I'm thankful for:

-          All the holidays/meals/nights/weekends my husband and I CAN be together
-          Bacon-wrapped asparagus
-          Spin bikes/Swimming pools
-          Mellow, rainy days
-          Naps
-          My beloved, warm, down vest
-          Coupons!
-          Our printer, which miraculously just-keeps-working (printing more coupons)
-          Christian radio
-          The dollar store
-          Spontaneous trips to Boise
-          Eddie Bauer
-          The internet/My favorite blogs
-          Having a budget
-          Our piano, and hymnal
-          Unexpected invitations, and compliments
-          A pantry/refrigerator/freezer filled with more than enough food

Monday, January 10, 2011

Skies of blue/Clouds of white

This week, I'm thankful for...

-          Organic-Salsa-Chicken Leftovers (with corn chips… mmm!)
-          A car that (eventually) heats up nicely, even in the uber-cold
-          Herbal tea for $2/box ( = $0.02/cup, if you use one bag per pot!)
-          Almond milk
-          Encouraging comments and conversations
-          The freedom to pray and worship as we choose
-          A New Workout DVD (so I needn’t brave the artic cold, going to the gym)
-          A monthly meal plan (FINALLY), complete with grocery lists!
-          Computers
-          Hot water bottles
-          Thrift Stores
-          Humidifiers
-          A partially-full calendar
-          Wise, older couples
-          That super-nice man, who let me go ahead of him in line
-          Candles
-          Being healthy

Monday, January 3, 2011

Welcome, 2011!

Today, I am super grateful to have:

  • Vitamin C
  • Snuggly blankets
  • Hot showers
  • Hot tea (… yes, I’m now sick…)
  • Movies
  • Current unemployment (… cuz I would totally be burning sick days right now…)
  • A warm home, where the rent includes utilities
  • Awesome snow tires
  • The Burger King dollar menu
  • And UBER-happy memories of our New Years’ Day ski/snowboard trip!

With these uber-awesome people....



In these uber-beautiful mountains...



Complete with creme-brulee almonds, and accidental detours to the wrong side of the mountain, and frozen toes, and dramamine comas, and radio dialogue loopy enough to make a Stoic laugh...


Whatever we lacked in sanity, we compensated for in memories.  Happy New Year!!!

Monday, December 27, 2010

It's the little things

This week, I am thankful for:

My cupboard full of tea... 


My beloved Christmas salt and pepper shakers...


My very-angry mini-whisk, because it makes me giggle every time I use it...


And most of all, my husband, who even when he is dead tired, is goofy enough to pretend that his camouflage works on the couch, and make me laugh…


And who draws me hearts, in the soap suds, while he does the dishes, long after midnight…

Friday, December 17, 2010

On Relativity and Perspective

Today started around midnight.  Midnight was when I realized I wasn't asleep.  Husband was snoring.  Husband rarely snores.  And usually, if I nudge him, he stops.  But, not today.  So, after hours of rising fury, I crawled out of bed, showered, and started my day at 4 a.m., in an instinctively grumpy mood.  It didn't help that I was driving on dark, wintery interstates for three hours, and trying to make eight hours’ worth of retail decisions on an empty stomach.  And it was dark.  And cold.  And the roads here are scary.  Etc.

My mind tallied complaints.  Why did I have to forego sleep last night?  Why did I use up my capacity for 40-hour days in highschool?  ...Why is the radio playing such stupid music?!

So, I started man-handling my mentality and focusing on blessings.  Not to be noble - rather, merely to cope.  And the whole world brightened.  *wry grin*  It always does.

- Fred Meyer is brilliant because they leave baskets around the store, so that when you realize you should have grabbed one, you don't have to traipse back to the front.  Brilliant.

- Organic chicken, on clearance, pretty much made my day.  I seriously stood two feet away, hoping/praying, while the sleepy meat-sale-price-tagger methodically printed and slapped orange clearance tags onto choice slabs of meat.

- Ditto to the gallons of organic milk for $2.50!  Scooooore!

[Note to self:  Always grocery shop between 7:00-9:00 a.m.  Stalk all people with orange-tag-printing guns.]

- I got the best parking space in town, without even trying.  No joke.

- The cashier wished me MERRY CHRISTMAS!  Not Happy Holidays, Season’s Greetings, or (the new trend) "Same to you."  I was psyched.  It was awesome.  Nothing against Kwanzaa or Hanukkah or any other holiday celebrated in December, but frankly I think it'd be awesome if we could all unabashedly celebrate whatever we want, verbally and otherwise.  And this cashier did.  Go her!

- I encountered an Irish lady in Costco’s meat department, and we chatted about lamb roasting for a solid five minutes.  Not sure why this was so cheering, but it totally was.

- Eating Costco's peppermint bark samples.  And Kerrygold's Dubliner cheese.  *swoon*

- John Frieda Shampoo, on clearance.  At a definitely-non-Walgreens price.  YES.

* * *

So, I know I’m supposed to write about adulthood on Friday.  And this sounds WAY more like a Happy List.  But, if there’s anything I’ve learned about adulthood, it’s that we have the absolute ability to control our moods.  One person screams because dinner burns; another remains pleasant in the face of chronic illness.  One attendant gives herself the right to be universally grouchy because she’s PMS-ing; another is intentionally gentle with the 5th person yelling at her today.  

Hardship is relative; It's all about perspective.

* * *

“Reflect on your present blessings, of which every man has many, not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.” - Dickens

Monday, December 13, 2010

Home. Neurotics. Happiness.

Husband is home!  And he is just as giddy as I was, to arrive home after so many months of travel.  It's awesome.  He, too, is now infatuated with cheese graters, and entire closets full of clothing options, and seemingly-massive kitchen space!  He's the best.  He promptly did dishes, and whistled happily the whole time.  Aw….


And we ate massive amounts of lasagna and sparkling juice…

And then, we put on hats and went for a walk, because it was finally above freezing!  And we felt very dapper, for a whole hour until we realized there were 4000 lbs. of gear and dirty clothes that we had to sort through.  Oops.  Oh well.  =)

* * *

Today’s happy list is unorthodox, but fully representative of this past week, as I tried to settle back in, and went rather nuts.  And then, I tried Pollyanna-ishly to find the upside of my craziness... hehe

Reasons to Be Glad If You’re Rather OCD/Perfectionistic:

- You never, ever start eating the second half of the chocolate box; that taut, cellophane divide is just too intimidating.  This is great for one's holiday health.

- You return all graphic t-shirts whose designs are even slightly crooked.  This actually saves alot of money.

- You re-edit each blog post at least ten times.  Yes, after hitting the "publish" button (which was already preceded by a dozen edits).  Especially, you'll fixate each paragraph’s ending, gauging if it bleeds needlessly onto a new line, and you'll adjust your phrasing to emphasize the correct words.  This prevents most heinous typos.

- You often win “guess how many beans are in this jar” contests.  This can be lucrative.

- You always know what time it is.  And when asked for the time, you may also volunteer the weather forecast and today’s major headlines.  This makes even grumpy people laugh.

- And why yes, all our refrigerated milk/meat is arranged by expiration date! 

     … isn’t yours?